Complaints

As it sits today, 11/14/2008.
Tomorrow, True will turn 4. I almost want to cry knowing that in 2 years, I will be sending him off to kindergarten. He wants so badly to go to school now, but they wont let him into the local preschool until January at the earliest. I'm kinda scared to send him to kindergarten without sending him to preschool, I want him adapted, you know?
My husband is a useless lump. Yes, I understand that working the graveyard shift can really take a toll on a person (as I've worked that shift before). What I don't understand though is how it can take so very much out of you that you basically cant (wont) do anything productive the rest of the time. I know, since I only work 3 days a week, the biggest share of the household stuff should be my responsibility, but it would be nice if he'd do the dishes every once in a while, considering I do all the laundry, clean the whole house, take care of the kids and the pets, mow the lawn, and keep the cars in running order. Is that really too much to ask?
I only have my job until 12/31/08. I interviewed with the agent back in September, and still haven't heard one way or the other. It's starting to bug me because it seems like he's avoiding me. He was even in here this morning, and wouldn't look me in the eye, barely said 2 words to me, and was only here about 45 minutes after I got here. So I have decided something. I will wait to agree to another job, but only until the 5th of December. If he doesn't say anything before then, I'm going to accept a job offer somewhere else. If, after then, he decides that he wants me to stay and work for him, I'm going to find a very polite way to say "Sorry, but you don't wait 3 months to get back to someone about a job." Is that so wrong?